Unless you can tell someone how to be confident, such advice is a meaningless cliche at best. After all, their livelihoods depend on maintaining the myths I debunk.
I suddenly found myself a single mom trying to uncover who I was again separate from my husband and was catapulted back into this thing called "dating." I had a closet full of oversized black "mommy" tops, a bunch of nursing bras and neutral-colored Birkenstock sandals. More importantly, I wasn't feeling attractive and I didn't know how to give signals that I was even interested in men.
posted this fascinating comment in regards to my post, The Confidence Myth.
His major point is that telling someone to “be confident” is a waste of time. I don’t like advice that doesn’t have a practical strategy.
The last date I remembered having was going to a toga fraternity party with my college boyfriend. I didn't know if I would ever get my groove back and feel like a sexy, charming and dateable woman again.
This is where my journey began and it's why I'm so passionate about helping men and women rediscover who they are, gain confidence and attract love.